Having been through divorces, neither of us was anxious to remarry although we enjoyed each other’s company.  I wanted a man in my life, but not in my house.  His feeling was the same.  After about a year of dating, he said to me “You are someone I could marry”.  Not romantic, but realistic and I knew he meant it.  It will be our 13-year anniversary April 18.

- Pat K., Tolono, Illinois